Friday, January 5, 2018

Finding Our Way to Jesus - Epiphany


There’s an old joke about two fish swimming around. One fish says to the other, just to make conversation, “How’s the water?” and the other says, “What the heck is water?” The point of the joke is that fish don’t know what water is because water is all they know. And also because they’re not that smart.
It’s a dumb joke. But it has a larger point, too, which is that we can become blind to what surrounds us. The water we swim in comes to feel normal, because it is normal for us, even if others might think it very strange. It’s helpful to get an outsider’s view now and then.
And that is true for the scriptures as much as for anything. When the stories we read in scripture feel perfectly normal we have probably lost sight of what they actually say.
Take these three wise men. In so many crèche scenes, I have some trouble discerning who is who, because they all look alike. Usually Mary and the angel resemble each other quite a bit, so I look for the wings. Angels have them, Mary doesn’t. It’s peculiar, actually, that the angel always seems to be a woman, because I can recall no female angels described in the Bible. This one’s name is Gabriel – not Gabriella. So, there is one oddity we have gotten so accustomed to we never even notice it.
And all the men tend to look alike: the shepherds, the wise men, and Joseph. Sometimes the shepherd has a sheep on his person – either wrapped around his legs or carried over his shoulder – so that helps. With the wise men, I look for the gifts. Guys who are carrying packages are wise men. And Joseph? Well, whoever is left over must be Joseph.
The point is this: we have homogenized all these characters. We have whitewashed them so they all look the same. It seems an odd thing to do, and I have to wonder why we do it.
I read an article recently about what it is to be a Midwesterner, and the author said it is very much about being ordinary, being normal. We are, in the Midwest, the definition of normal. And this also means, the author added, that anything threatening to that normality, anything unusual, will often be repressed, because it threatens our self-image. Something similar seems to happen in religion, too. We decide what is normal, what is acceptable, what is – to use the religious word for it – orthodox, and then we make sure everything conforms to it.
The problem with this normality is that we don’t see what is right in front of our faces sometimes. Look at Matthew’s gospel.
Who among us has carefully read the first chapter of Matthew. You would not be alone if you admitted that you haven’t. It’s a genealogy. Yawn. Everyone skips over the genealogies, the same way we skip over the long tedious lists of ordinances in Leviticus and Deuteronomy. These things are not really part of the story – except that they are.
If you have read Matthew’s genealogy carefully then you know that there are a few women included, which in itself is weird; but the women he chose to include make it even weirder. Matthew’s genealogy includes the names of Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, and a fourth woman who is not actually named. But it’s not hard to figure out who she is; her name is Bathsheba.
What is weird about the inclusion of these women is that not one of them was an ordinary, respectable, Jewish housewife. Each one of them had a story that most families would try to closet away; these are the relatives families don’t talk about. Take Tamar: for the purpose of tricking her father-in-law into impregnating her, Tamar pretended to be a prostitute. You heard me right. Rahab didn’t have to pretend. Ruth came dangerously close to becoming one. And Bathsheba – she wasn’t a prostitute, but this wasn’t a bedtime story she told her children.
So that’s chapter one of Matthew’s gospel. All these women were part of Jesus’ family tree. And then in chapter two, things get even weirder.
After Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, wise men came from the East. They were not kings, even though we often call them kings. They were Wise Men. Magi. Men who practiced magic, which was definitely not kosher. They were not Jews, they were not even close. Sources say they were probably from Baghdad, or thereabouts. They were men who swam in very different waters than the people of Judea. What are they doing here now?
The preacher Debbie Blue says we ought to sneak characters like Bart Simpson figures into our crèches. We ought to put an odd Batman action figure or a Barbie doll in there with the holy family. Because, if we did people would say, “what are they doing there?” As we should be asking about the magi. What are they doing there?
Maybe they are here because only a foreigner could see what was going on.
It’s a classic case of being too close to something to even see it for what it is. The people surrounding Mary and Joseph had no clue, apparently, that the Son of God was in their midst. It took these men who were foreign in every way to recognize him. These men from faraway lands were closer to the Christ than anyone around him was.
And that’s the way the story unfolded. It is a story of the people closest to Jesus having the most trouble understanding who he was. It’s a story of being rejected in his own hometown, rejected by the authorities of his own religion, being rejected by the very ones who had been waiting for him. And in fact, this is a pattern that continues even now.
It is often those who claim the most familiarity who have the most difficulty really seeing Jesus. The ones who claim the most knowledge of the gospel might have the most trouble hearing it. It has become too commonplace, too ordinary, too normal. We have too much invested in our interpretation of it. If the gospel of Jesus Christ stops seeming strange to you, you had better be concerned. You might be losing your ability to find your way to Jesus.
These wise men – and actually, who knows how many there were? We always say there were three just because they brought three gifts – these men were as strange as strange could be to the land and people of Judea, yet they found him. They didn’t know their way around and they had to stop and ask for directions from Herod – of all people! But they kept at it, diligently following the star in that peculiar way of theirs, and they found him.
Of course, this was months later and he was no longer a newborn lying in a manger. Mary and Joseph were living in a house, probably with some of Joseph’s family. And these wise men probably looked very strange riding into town on their camels. I wonder what the neighbors thought of them.
Here is the thing: these men who were complete outsiders found their way to Jesus. They used methods that the residents of Bethlehem would have considered blasphemous. They are not believers in this God of Israel. They just know that the divine has broken through into our world, and they care enough about it to put their lives on hold, put themselves at risk, and travel this long journey to a distant and foreign land to pay him homage.
Everything about them was wrong, yet they were the ones who found him. Do you see how strange it is?
My hope is that we, the church, will wander away from what is normal, what is acceptable, what is orthodox, for the sake of finding the Christ in our world. My hope is that we will open our eyes this Epiphany – a word that just means illumination or insight, revelation perhaps – and see the danger of hewing too close to the standard, the conventional, the normal. My hope is that we will wake up and see that God is guiding us, by a star or a dream or whatever it might be, to something different than what we expect. My hope is that we will, like the wise men, hear God leading us – warning us – to go a different way, to make a new path, to never, ever stop seeking, finding our way to Jesus.

photo: Kokopelli? What's he doing there???

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